Macaroni and Cheese Recipe

Crazy Good Macaroni and Cheese Recipe

Like many, my favorite food growing up was macaroni and cheese. I would take it anyway I could get it — out of a box or made from scratch by Mom. In fact, it’s one of the first things I learned to make as a child.

Mounds of cheese melted into a velvety creamy sauce and tossed with pasta. It’s heavenly.

Below, you’ll notice we share a bunch of tips from our experiences in our kitchen. If you have some advice or tips to add, please share in the comments below.

Crazy Good Macaroni and Cheese Recipe – Our Tips

One of my favorite parts of the last few weeks was testing, learning and eating macaroni and cheese. Not a bad couple of weeks, right?

After each try, we got a little closer to our favorite recipe and how to make it the best — every time.

One note. There are two common ways to make mac and cheese. The first uses a combination of butter and flour to make what’s called a “roux.” Milk is added and whisked into the butter and flour. Starches from the flour swell and thicken the milk and we’re left with a thick, creamy, glossy sauce.

The second is custard-based and uses egg yolks to thicken the sauce. For this recipe, we went with the first option (it’s how our Mom’s make it and, in our opinion, a little easier). There are definitely two camps. Here’s a great comparison of the two methods.

Butter, flour, milk and cheese. That’s all you really need to make our creamy and cheesey macaroni.

Crazy Good Macaroni and Cheese Recipe

Here are a few tips so you can make the best — It’s the little things that make a big difference in the end.

The Pasta – Shape and Cooking It

We’re traditionalists when it comes to mac and cheese. We choose elbow macaroni and try to find a brand that adds little grooves to the sides of the pasta. The sauce sticks better. Other pastas like penne, cavatelli or spiral shapes work well.

It’s really important to undercook the pasta before tossing with the cheesy sauce. Whether you enjoy the mac and cheese as stovetop pasta or baked pasta, the pasta will continue to cook in the hot sauce. By undercooking slightly, you remove the risk of mushy pasta. We cook pasta 1 to 2 minutes under what the pasta package calls for.

The Milk

We use what we have in the fridge — that’s most likely 2 % reduced fat milk. Whole milk works wonders, too. In the past, we’ve used 1% and even skim milk, but they were never as creamy. It still tastes great, but you do loose some richness.

The milk is added to our “roux” or butter-flour paste.

There’s a lot of talk about whether to use hot or cold milk when making macaroni and cheese. Julia Child say’s hot milk —  we’re not usually one’s to disagree with Julia. With that said, there are quite a few arguments out there that pushes for cold milk. The theory on both sides are to prevent lumps in the final sauce.

We’ve made the sauce both ways and really haven’t been able to find a winner. So, here’s what we’ve concluded: use warm milk and, more importantly, while adding the milk to the butter-flour mixture, add slowly and constantly whisk.

The Cheese

There’s no room for mild cheeses, here. Our standby is sharp white cheddar cheese. It’s flavorful and melts beautifully. Depending on the cheese you buy, you risk graininess as they melt. Martha Stewart says yellow and extra sharp cheddars can become grainy — another win for sharp white cheddar cheese.

You could just stick with one cheese, but we love adding a little extra punch. Pecorino-Romano or Romano cheese works wonders for this. (Romano is the American and Canadian term for Perorino-Romano cheese).

Another common cheese used is Gruyere — we love it, but it’s expensive so we usually skip it.

One more note about cheese: If you can, grate the cheese yourself. Store-bought grated cheeses are drier (and a litte more expensive). They don’t seem to melt as well as cheese you’ve hand grated. It is a little more effort, but we really think it’s worth it in the end.

Crazy Good Macaroni and Cheese Recipe

Gosh we wish we could give you that spoonful of cheesy macaroni through the computer screen. Yum.

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Why we love this recipe. We’ve love most mac and cheeses, but this one is at the top of our list. It’s easy to make, can be served as stovetop mac and cheese or baked and it’s unbelievably cheesy and creamy.

What you need to know. When choosing pasta for this, choose something that holds onto sauce nicely -- elbow macaroni, penne or spiral pasta works well. If you can, grate the cheese yourself, store-bought grated cheese does not melt as nicely. We really like using white cheddar cheese for this. It is usually much sharper that yellow cheddar and melts perfectly into the sauce. Many recipes like this call for Gruyere cheese instead of Romano. Gruyere is lovely in this recipe, so feel free to substitute it for the Romano.

Equipment you’ll need. Measuring jugs, cups and spoons, 3-quart baking dish (a 13-inch by 9-inch baking dish works well), large pot, large and high-sided pan, whisk and spoon or spatula.
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Yield: 8
You Will Need
  • 1 pound box (453 grams) pasta
  • 5 cups (1182 ml) milk, whole or 2% are best
  • 1/2 cup (8 tablespoons or 113 grams) unsalted butter (1 stick)
  • 1/2 (70 grams) cup all-purpose flour
  • 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard
  • 1/8 to 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
  • 1/8 teaspoon ground nutmeg
  • 4 1/2 heaping cups (18 ounces or 510 grams) sharp white cheddar cheese
  • 1 1/2 cups (5 ounces or 142 grams) Romano cheese or Pecorino Romano cheese
  • 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, or to taste
Heat Oven and Prepare Baking Dish
  1. If baking and not serving stovetop mac and cheese, heat oven to 375 degrees F (190 degrees C). Butter, or spray with non-stick cooking spray, a 3-quart casserole dish.
Cook Pasta
  1. Bring a large pot of salted water to the boil, add pasta then follow package directions, but cook 1 minute less than the package calls for. Drain then rinse pasta with cold water.
Prepare Cheese Sauce
  1. Add milk to a large microwave-safe measuring jug and microwave 1 to 3 minutes until warm. Alternately, you can add milk to a large saucepan over medium heat then heat milk until warm.
  2. Melt butter in a large, high-sided pan over medium heat. When the butter begins to bubble, add the flour. Cook, whisking constantly 2 to 3 minutes until butter smells fragrant and nutty -- the color of the butter-flour mixture will be light brown.
  3. While whisking, slowly pour warm milk into butter and flour mixture. Continue to cook, whisking constantly until the sauce bubbles and thickens.Macaroni-and-Cheese-Recipe-Step-1
  4. Remove pan from the heat. Stir in mustard, cayenne, nutmeg, 4 cups of cheddar and all of the Romano cheese. Stir until the heat from the sauce melts the cheese.
  5. Taste then add salt. We usually add a 1/2 teaspoon, but cheese can sometimes be salty, so add based on your taste.Macaroni-and-Cheese-Recipe-Step-2
  6. Note -- If you prefer, skip the next steps for baking and serve now as stovetop macaroni and cheese by tossing drained and rinsed pasta with sauce.
Bake Pasta
  1. If the drained and rinsed pasta will fit into the pan, add it to the cheese sauce. If the pasta will not fit, add both the pasta and sauce to a separate large bowl and stir well.Macaroni-and-Cheese-Recipe-Step-3
  2. Then, pour into prepared baking dish. Top with remaining 1/2 cup of cheddar cheese.
  3. Bake about 30 minutes or until bubbling then turn oven to broil and broil 3 to 5 minutes until top has blistered and become lightly browned.Macaroni-and-Cheese-Recipe-Step-4
  4. Let stand about 10 minutes before serving.

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25 comments… Leave a Comment
  • Angela November 24, 2016, 7:18 pm

    I made this for Thanksgiving and it was fantastic. I made it ahead of time, and it worked out perfectly.

  • Ann April 2, 2016, 10:26 pm

    Hi there! I made this recipe today, and the flavour was great! But, I didn’t know how long to keep stirring the milk/butter/flour mixture before adding the cheese. The instructions said until “thickened”, but how thick? I did it for a long while (at least 10 mins), and the final product (I did stovetop version), was super thick and kinda goopy. Did I thicken it too much? What is the right consistency of this dish? Please help… I’ve never been able to master mac n cheese.

    • Joanne May 19, 2016, 1:03 pm

      Hi Ann, We cook our mixture until it coats the back of a spoon. You should be able to swipe your finger through the sauce and a line will stay. I will make sure this is more clear in the recipe above. Sorry for any confusion.

  • Jim December 24, 2015, 2:07 pm

    Good stuff.,,,made two batches, one according to recipe, and the other”adult style”!( the addition of sliced pickled jalapeño)…Awesome!!!

  • Juanita Holloway-Walters June 17, 2015, 3:10 pm

    Almost identical to mine. New daughter in law asked for mac and cheese with bacon so i was perusing recipes. I know this will be good. Everyone should use a little mad money for the Gruyere. I am going to use half Gruyere and half Pecorino Romano to the same amount your recipe calls for P Romano. I am fortunate to live on the Texas Gulf Coast, and shop at HEB that always carries what my heart desires – as in the white cheddar. Will chop 1/2 lb. bacon and fry it in a tall sauce pan for no mess of splatters to make the bacon bits I will put on the M And C for the last 5 minutes. It will be heavenly.

  • Michelle Wagner November 12, 2014, 1:00 pm

    My family LOVED the mac and cheese, they only asked to add bacon next time! Thanks so much!!!!

  • Jimbo October 2, 2014, 4:36 pm

    I would like to tank u very much for this great recipe a market just opened down the block from me they had great deals on fish so I was looking for something to go with it and ur Mac and cheese was the key to a perfect dinner my family and kids said thanks for the best creemist Mac and cheese they ever had so thanks god bless u

  • Miral July 29, 2014, 4:28 pm

    I made it with the pineapple in it and also tasted it when I got it out of the oven and it was great BUT when we finally ate , after approximately two hours, the taste had gone to bitter rather then creamy and sweet! 🙁 so please guide me to improve it.

    • Joanne August 7, 2014, 12:43 pm

      Hi there, we’ve never tried added pineapple before! We’re not really sure why the taste changed over time, maybe it has something to do with the acid in the pineapple? Sorry it didn’t work out for you!

  • Geri March 9, 2014, 4:45 pm

    WHERE does a person find sharp white cheddar???? Actually, I couldn’t find any white cheddar. Also, would it be just as good to use the usual “orangeish” sharp cheddar,, (not sure what color to use to describe the typical cheddar cheese color found in any grocery store).

    • Joanne March 17, 2014, 4:30 pm

      White cheddar is usually found in most cheese sections of grocery stores. If you cannot find it, yellow cheddar will do just fine.

  • Bernadette Alicea January 13, 2014, 12:40 am

    I have a wedding that I need to cook 2 bug batches a head of time, if I make this the night before and bake it the next day what temp and for how long would you say??

    • Joanne January 15, 2014, 3:07 pm

      You can definitely make this in advance. Keep it covered in the refrigerator then bake in a 375F oven until heated through. I’d guess about 1 hour of baking will do it.

      • Crystal March 5, 2014, 11:17 pm

        I’ve always made my mac ‘n’ cheese the night before; the flavors seem to mesh a little better by the next day. This is my first time making this dish using a “roux” though, and I’ve added some smoked cheddar cheese (I heard this was tasty), so I’m anxious to see how I’ll fair. Can’t wait. No worries though, as I’ve followed several recipes from this site and have yet to be disappointed. Stay tuned!

        • Joanne March 17, 2014, 4:57 pm

          Oh, yum … smoked cheddar would be awesome. Hope you love it!

          • Kieran murray August 9, 2015, 7:38 pm

            Smoked cheese is a must ,in my cheese and Mac ,plus bacon

  • Heidi September 10, 2013, 11:24 am

    I was looking to make this for my daughter’s birthday party. Is it spicy or is it fine for kids to eat?

    • Joanne September 16, 2013, 11:35 am

      No, it is not spicy. You can add as much or as little cayenne as you like. You can even omit it.

  • Lindsay July 26, 2013, 11:26 am

    Can you make this a day ahead of time and then bake it when you are ready? I am looking for a good make-ahead mac & cheese dish and this looks perfect!

    • Joanne July 26, 2013, 1:25 pm

      Yep, that shouldn’t be a problem at all.

  • Deborah July 11, 2013, 10:30 am

    Thank you for a really fun website! Your recipes are great all-rounders, the instructions are clear and enhanced by the photo’s. I agree that it’s a real shame I could not have a spoonful of that mac and cheese throughout the computer screen!

  • Nancy June 30, 2013, 6:56 pm

    All I have to say is bacon, bacon and more bacon.

  • Gigi June 29, 2013, 6:59 pm

    So, this is the 3rd recipe that I have used or been inspired by you two so I decided to post a comment. The first was your Pho, I chose yours because of your very informative UTube video and it turned out wonderful, thank you very much! The second was your hummus. Mine always turned out like crunchy peanut better so I went to your recipe for some tips. Once again, thank you, my hummus and my husband are happier now. Currently I have MY version, being inspired by your facebook post, of your mac-n-cheese baking in my oven. I ALWAYS make changes to a recipe depending on what I have in my pantry/fridge. Today I substituted penne, added chevre, and asiago to make up for my lack enough sharp cheddar – it smell delicious! Thanks you two!

  • Linda June 7, 2013, 7:28 am

    I haven’t made your recipe yet, sounds great, but thought I would let you know how I save time when I make my Mac & Cheese. I used to manage a meals on wheels program and to save mixing time instead of grating the cheeses I simlpy cut in small cubes add them to a blender with the warm milk mixture and blend on high for about a minute. You get velvetly creamy sauce everytime. I also add a few crushed corn flake crumbs on top before I bake it. Yummy, easy, and attractive to serve on your table.

    • Joanne June 10, 2013, 10:12 am

      Great tip!


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